There are different reasons why we get into relationships. It can be love, it can be infatuation, it can be fascination, but also fear of loneliness, trying to fit into society and everything that comes to mind ... everyone else, no worse.
Undoubtedly, at the bottom, sometimes deep, often deeper, there is a need, this need is the need for closeness, touch, intimacy.
And it happens that we jump from wall to wall because this relationship, this hope for beauty, somehow not quite in the same frequency, one party dances differently than the other, to different music, to different lives and it's hard in a couple and even harder alone.
It's impossible to move forward, it's even harder to turn back. Deadlock. And then… Why are we so afraid to reach out for help? And yet in the middle there can be a person who will support in paving one common road.
Roads in closeness, intimacy, body to body. Because a relationship isn't about the head, it's about the body. Intimacy needs a body, without it, it withers and languishes. Intimacy can be regained, it can be learned. You can slowly explore the body, what blocks us, divides us... barbed wire between you and me. Feel the other person, every piece of that other body, in full acceptance, in surrender. The touch he wants to give, so different from the one he wants to take handfuls of.
Touch… needed by everyone. And so, in an intimate atmosphere, in devotion to the guide, you can go to merging relationships by participating in sessions with a partner or alone, where there are no taboos, where openness helps to build, not destroy. Each of us has our own story, our own wounds, our own pain. You don't have to nurture them, you can help heal them.
What does an intimacy coach mean?
An intimacy teacher is someone who helps you feel comfortable and intimate with your partner. Comfort in a sense of intimacy is something we should learn as children. Unfortunately, some of us grow up without good role models and emotional and psychological closeness. Therefore, in adult life, we do not feel safe in relationships, we are unable to create intimacy. During my sessions, I help and guide, I teach how to experience many types of intimacy, increase the range of sensual experiences in sexual experiences, release your erotic potential, which helps partners get closer to each other.
There are two main types of intimacy: sexual and emotional intimacy.
Comfort and intimacy must be built from scratch, from the beginning. I teach how to work through the wrong attachment style, how to change it to a safe style and feel close to your partner. An intimacy trainer works with the body, with consciousness, working to increase emotional awareness.
What is….Physical and sexual intimacy?
During my sessions, I help maintain intimacy in many different ways. One of them are exercises that teach you to feel more pleasant sensations. I can recommend you to experiment with different types of touches of your own body or feeling different textures, tastes and sounds. At our intimate meeting, I can offer you a sensual touch and help you relax, experience what it's like to receive and enjoy the touch with tantric massage methods.
Intimacy coaches also teach you to understand your sexual preferences and help you overcome the shame you may feel about those desires. As you become more aware of your desires and comfortable with them, you can feel more confident and comfortable in intimate situations.
Finally, to increase sexual intimacy, I teach communication with a partner, help share your sexual needs - in terms of sensations and what you like before, during and after sexual experiences.